What? My Daughter, an Alcoholic?

With all the wine time talk out there, when it comes to alcoholism, no one seems to understand what alcoholism looks like in the eighty-percent of alcoholics who attend college, have jobs, go on vacation, go out with friends, and visit or have families of their own....

The One Question You Should Never Ask

Why Aren’t You Drinking? How come you’re not drinking? Why, don’t you want some wine? You’re not going to AA again, are you? If you’re not drinking, would like a joint instead? How about a few lines? You must do something, right? You would never quit drinking...

Mothers Who Do This—Will Have Children Who Do it Too

My mother was that mother. She was beautiful, wildly fun, and about as inappropriate as a mother could be. I grew up back in the day of 3.2 beer and plenty of cigarettes, that at sixteen years old she didn’t care that I smoked, my sisters’ smoked, and the crowd of...

What the Dry January Challenge Can Mean to You?

For those of you new to Raising the Bottom, welcome! I’m here to educate, support, and tell it like it is when it comes to our drinking culture. I grew up in an alcoholic home (my mother), and in my late twenties, got sober. It’s the only disease that I know of...